Weekly
Chasidic Story #1423 (5785-25) 17 Adar 5785 (March 17, 2025)
"Shabbat by
Halves"
"After a lot of thought,
I decided to close my store on Saturday, even though I had calculated that I
would lose $30,000 a month. However, I still planned to work until late Friday
night."
Why this week? In
the Torah reading, Ki Tisa (Ex. 31:12-17), some benefits of observing Shabbat
are described.
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Shabbat by Halves
As a young man, I [Ami
Pykovski] ran a clothing business in Los Angeles, in a prime garment-district
location - on the corner of South Los Angeles Street and Pico Boulevard. At
the time I was early in my journey to Judaism and my store was open on Shabbat.
On a typical Saturday I would make 5,000-15,000 dollars, and this was a major
portion of the weekly sales.
I wanted very much to close
on Shabbat, but I calculated that if I did, I would lose somewhere between $20,000
to 60,000 a month. After a lot of thought, I decided to close on Saturday. However,
although the store would be closed on Saturday, I planned on working until late
on Friday nights.
I wrote to the Lubavitcher
Rebbe about my decision to close the business on Shabbat without saying anything
about Friday night. The Rebbe's answer was, "Start from before sunset and
great is your merit to joyously spread Judaism" (he underlined the word
"joyously"). The Rebbe also enclosed 18 dollars and wrote that I should
give them to charity locally -- a bill of ten, a bill of five, a bill of two,
and a bill of one.
Now it was clear: the business
would be closed the entire Shabbat. But in order to do so, I had to break the
lease with the landlord for the space I rented for my store. It was a huge area
that was spread out over an entire block, so the cost of canceling the ten-year
lease was enormous. I tried convincing friends to buy the lease from me, but
nobody wanted to. When I saw that I had no option, I decided to inform the landlord
that I was breaking the lease.
When I went to his office,
I was told that he wasn't there. I went back to the store and a businessman
whom I did not know walked in and said he wanted to buy the property. "I'm
not the owner," I said. "You must talk to the landlord."
"I already spoke to
the landlord," he responded, "and he is ready to sell, but he said
that you hold the lease. This is why I am here - to buy you out."
Suddenly I had the upper
hand. I started thinking hard how much money to ask from him for breaking the
contract. Before I said a word. he offered an amount that was much higher than
I would have dared to ask for. We signed an agreement and I evacuated the premises.
With the money I received
for our arrangement, I bought a building and established a clothing factory,
something I never would have dreamed I could do. In the normal course of things,
I would have had to work for decades in order to achieve such a thing. Yet,
the Rebbe had shortened the way for me. It was all in the merit of my deciding
to keep Shabbat.
Here is another example
where I saw unimaginable success after I decided to keep Shabbat. I had an offer
to open a chain of stores called Indian Head in Los Angeles, but I decided not
to get involved in retail so I wouldn't have to work on Shabbat. Instead, I
decided to invest in the manufacturing of clothing and to offer it to Macy's.
When I went to the buyer,
she thought I would show her dozens of styles, as was to be expected from companies
that do business with Macy's. I came with just one style. She was very impressed
that I had come with just one style. She said that because I had the guts to
come to them, she was eager to work with me [1] and she placed an order worth
$25,000.
That was the first time
that I worked with a company on such a large scale and I was very excited. But
when the clothing came from the dyeing process, I was devastated. They had mixed
up the colors and every pair of pants came out in a different color.
When I saw this, I began
to cry. I was sure I had lost all my money, which was a large amount in those
days, as well as the opportunity to work with Macy's.
After vacillating for a
while, I decided to send them the merchandise anyway. I left the office for
two weeks, afraid of the angry phone calls I would get.
Sure enough, upon my return,
I found dozens of messages from the company on my answering machine. The phone
rang just then and the Macy's rep was on the line. "I've been looking for
you for two weeks,' she said. 'Your pants were incredibly successful. They are
totally sold out!"
* * *
In my youth, I was a promising professional soccer player in Israel. Over the
years, I used my connections with friends in the world of soccer to spread Judaism.
On one of my visits to Israel, I met with my former soccer trainer, David Shweitzer,
with whom I was very close. He asked me jokingly who would advocate for him
when he went to heaven after 120 years. I told him, "When you get up there,
tell them you are Pykovski's friend and they'll take care of you."
The next day, I got a phone
call from a friend who said that David had died. I was shocked. I thought, "how
shall I keep my promise to him from the day before he died." I decided
to write a Torah in his merit.
When the Torah was completed
except for the last few rows of letters, we brought it to the Chabad yeshiva
in Ramat Aviv. The finishing of it was spectacular. We wrote the last letters
on the soccer field where David Shweitzer had served as a trainer.
The Chief Ashkenazi Rabbi
of Israel at the time, Rabbi Yisrael-Meir Lau, attended the event. He said that
he had attended hundreds of such events in his life, but he had never experienced
a moving one such as this, with the soccer players on the field in uniform together
with Jews from all sorts of backgrounds writing letters in the Torah.
* * *
On one of my business trips to the Far East, I spent Shabbat at Chabad in Bangkok,
Thailand, with one of the Rebbe's emissaries there, Rabbi Nechemia Wilhelm.
At the Shabbat meal there were a few dozen young people. I announced that I
would give tefillin as a gift to whoever would commit to putting them on regularly.
A young Israeli sat next
to me who wore the red robes of the local idol worshipers and who looked like
a Thai monk. He raised his hand and said he commits to putting on tefillin.
I was shocked, but I kept my word and sent him tefillin.
Two years later I was visiting
Israel and I spent a day studying in the Chabad yeshiva in Ramat Aviv. A young
man approached me and asked me whether I recognized him. I said he must be mistaken
since we had never met before, but he insisted that we knew one another. He
brought me his tefillin and said that he was the fellow from Thailand to whom
I had given tefillin and now he was studying in yeshiva.
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Source: Compiled by Yerachmiel Tilles from a 2012 issue of "L'Chaim,"
a publication of the Lubavitch Youth Organization, and from an interview for
"Here's My Story", posted on Chabad,org.
Why this week? In
this week's Torah reading (Ex. 33:1-3), and in last week's (Ex. 31:12-17), some
instructions for proper observance of Shabbat are described.
Biographic note:
Ami Pykovski is a successful businessman, and a former professional soccer
player who played for 36 years in Los Angeles as well as for the Israeli soccer
team. Today, he serves the religious needs of the soccer players and is a very
familiar face for Israeli soccer fans, once lighting a menorah for 30,000 spectators
at a Beitar match in Jerusalem.
Footnote:
[1] When I heard him tell his story at a Shavuot retreat in 2020, it was not
nearly that easy. But as the details are now fuzzy in my mind I decided to leave
this report unchanged.
1
Yerachmiel
Tilles is co-founder and associate director of Ascent-of-Safed, and chief editor
of this website (and of KabbalaOnline.org). He has hundreds of published stories
to his credit, and many have been translated into other languages. He tells
them live at Ascent nearly every Saturday night.
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